Signs of unhealthy boundaries

(1.) Telling all.
(2.) Speaking at an intimate level upon your first encounter with someone.
(3.) Falling in love with anyone who reaches out to you.
(4.) Being overwhelmed or preoccupied with a person.
(5.) cting upon your first sexual impulse.
(6.) Being sexual because your partner wants you to be, not because you want to be.
(7.) Going against your own personal values in order to please others.
(8.) Not noticing when someone else displays inappropriate behavior or invades your personal boundaries.
(9.) Accepting food, gifts, touching, or sexual acts that you don't want.
(10.) Touching someone else intimately without them asking for it.
(11.) Taking as much as you can get for the sake of getting.
(12.) Giving as much as you can give for the sake of giving.
(13.) Allowing someone to take as much as they can from you.
(14.) Letting others direct your life.
(15.) Letting others define who you are.
(16.) Believing that others can anticipate your needs.
(17.) Expecting others to automatically fill your needs.
(18.) Falling apart so that someone will take care of you.
(19.) Abusing yourself sexually, physically, or through food, chemicals or gambling.


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